How to avoid failure?

7 warnings signals
F = frustration
frustration is NOT a bad thing,
it cause you to want to improve in your life.

result of frustration from several sources:
1) striving for prefection instead of realistic results.
2) negative self-image
change the way you think, dont compare yourself with others,
compare yourself with yourself.

some corrective actions:
- use a realistic to-do list
[dont put 100 things that you cannot fulfill in a day on your list]
- check off the things that you had fulfilled
re-evaluate your goals and make adjustments if necessary.

A = aggressiveness
change into assertiveness
aggressiveness = bully people
assertiveness = a person of win-win personality, always raising the self-esteem of teh people
pay attention at your body language, voice, tone and facial expressions.
be firm but yet nice. ((:

I = insecurity
in result of feeling inadequate
insecurity = always thinking of pleasing others
we can improve on the things we are good at.

L = loneliness
always feeling sorry for yourself
alone is NOT being lonely
when you are alone, you are contented
when you are lonely, you are like "poor me".
So just be yourself, listen to yourself, replace those feeling.
Allow God to work in your life.
dont be a lone ranger yep.

U = uncertainty
inhabit risk-taking
[James 1:7-8]
risk-taking = there's a chance you wont succeed
but if you dont even do anything, you will NEVER succeed.
at least TRY to do something. [so that you fail as a happy person]
change uncertainty into action,
dont be afraid to fail.

R= resentment
resentment is the worst out of everything
resentment = your anger gone rotten
practise forgiveness
actively activate your forgiveness

E = emptyness
sense of loss of self
feeling that life is meaningless, hopelessness

How can we get the feeling of fulfilment?
by reach your goals, responding to the failures you met on the journey.
[without goals, you will go back to your past,
because there's nothing for you to motivate yourself]