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15th February 2007,Thursday {CNY Service}
Relationships
The kingdom of God is all about relationships.
Harmony is living in peace and enjoyment with the people around us.
{Romans 12:5}
We are connected to each other.
4 negative attitudes that destroys relationships:
1.Selfishness
{James 4:1-2}
Selfishness causes family fueds.
Sometimes we put in too much effort in starting a reationship than maintaining a relationship.
We are selfish by nature.
We are always thinking about ourselves.
{Proverbs 28:25}
Selfishness only causes trouble.
Antidote: Selflessness
{Philippians 2:4}
{Galatians 6:7-8}
When we are selfless,we are planting good seeds.
People are not looking at I.Q,they are looking at E.Q!!
{John 10:10}
2. Pride
{Proverbs 13:10}
Pride can show up in:
>Critism
>People who want to compare
>Stubborn streaks
Pride is self-deceiving.
{Proverbs 16:18}
Antidote: Humility
{1 Peter 3:8}
Humility comes by letting Jesus Christ come into our lives and control our lives.
{Ephesians 4:23-24}
We have to change our thinking.
3. Insecurity
{Proverbs 29:25}
People who are insecure are very controlling.
Insecurity prevents intimacy.
Insecurity:
>We fear exposure.
>We fear rejection.
{Ephesians 4:31}
Antidote: Love
{1 John 4:18}
We replace the emptiness in our lives with the love of God.
We overcome fear by putting our focus on God.
{1 John 4:15-17}
It is okay to make mistakes.
4. Resentment
{Job 5:2}
We must overcome hurt and know thiings will get better.
We need people around us who can think unemotionally.
{Hebrews 12:15}
Antidote: Forgiveness
{Colossians 3:13}
We must forgive others.
Forgiveness is important.
Resentment hurts no one but ourselves.
{Titus 3:3-7}
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16th February.....

Happy Birthday, Jin Han!!
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Enjoy your new year celebrations!!!
^.^Janice~